Registration for our Fall 2027 Cotillion Season opens on Monday, November 9th, 2026 at 9:00am. Exact Fall 2027 dates will be posted in late winter if not earlier. Be sure to review our refund policy ahead of time before registering. Thank you!

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Our 7th & 8th meet for a combined curriculum of etiquette topics and dance instruction. The topics and dances change every year for this group, so that they are learning new things each season! Most events will be held on Saturday evenings, but an Add-on Guided 4-Course Etiquette Dinner event could be on a Sunday evening due to restaurant availability. (Several dates will be available to select for this add-on dinner experience.) Please note this 7th & 8th grade combined group will either meet on Saturday evenings at 7:00pm or later at 8:30pm, TBD, so please keep the entire evening open when registering.

This is great for students that have completed our sixth grade cotillion program, but it is also appropriate for brand new students to BRJC to join in the fun as well. We always have new students in grades 7th & 8th join us each season! New students are welcome!

The social skills students develop today will shape the relationships and opportunities they build tomorrow. At Bentonville-Rogers Junior Cotillion, we want students to feel comfortable walking into a room, meeting new people, starting conversations, and confidently navigating any social setting. We know that students need a fun and educational experience to practice these skills. These lessons go beyond learning etiquette: they build self-confidence, encourage meaningful connections, and teach students how to make others feel valued and included.

The BRJC Cotillion program not only empowers your teen with essential social skills, but it also provides the opportunity to master ballroom and line dancing, a key aspect of navigating formal events with grace and confidence. Whether it’s attending a family dinner, a birthday party, or their first job interview, these skills will help your teen succeed in any setting. 

Introducing Yourself and Making a Lasting Impression:

First impressions matter! A confident introduction can be the beginning of a great friendship, connection, or opportunity. Students will learn how to introduce themselves properly, make comfortable eye contact, offer a confident handshake when appropriate, and use friendly body language. They will practice what to say when meeting someone new, how to keep a conversation going, and how to leave others with a positive impression. These are important skills that will serve them in school, social settings, interviews, and throughout their future.

The Art of Extending an Invitation:

Inviting someone to join you for an event is a wonderful way to build friendships and make others feel included. Students will learn how to extend an invitation thoughtfully, communicate important details, and choose the appropriate way to invite someone. They will practice what to say, how to make an invitation clear, and why following through on plans and communicating graciously are important parts of being a good friend, and will be important in all future social situations.

Being A Great Host:

Being a great host is about more than planning an event; it's about making others feel welcome, comfortable, and included. Students will learn how to greet guests, make introductions help conversations get started, and recognize the little details that make someone feel special. They will discover how thoughtfulness and consideration can turn an ordinary gathering into a wonderful experience for everyone. Mastering these skills will carry students from party planning now to navigating work related events with ease in the future.

Being a Great Guest:

Knowing how to be a gracious guest is a skills students will use throughout their lives. Students will learn how to respond to invitations, arrive prepared, greet their host, participate in activities, and show appreciation for being included. We will discuss what it means to be considerate of others, follow through on commitments and RSVPs, and leave a positive impression whenever they go.

Networking: Making Connections

Meeting new people and staring conversations are valuable skills that can open doors to new friendships and future opportunities. Through an interactive networking exercise, students will practice introducing themselves, asking thoughtful questions, finding common interests, and engaging in meaningful conversations. They will learn that networking isn't just for adults or business settings: it's about building connections, showing genuine interest in others, and feeling comfortable in new social situations.

Cell Phone Etiquette:

Cell phones are a part of everyday life but knowing when and how to use them appropriately is an important social skill. Students will explore appropriate phone use in different social settings, learn when it's best to put their phones away, and understand how distractions can affect the people around them. They will discover that being present, making eye contact, and giving others their attention are simple ways to show respect and build stronger connections. 

Perfecting Table Manners: (Add-on event) Registration for one of our Guided Etiquette dinners will open for Cotillion members on the Monday following our first Fall Event. Details for registration for these dinners will be sent to Cotillion members in the summer of 2027.

Dinners are non-refundable or transferable to future dates, so please check your calendars carefully before registering. Thanks!

Table manners are an essential part of any social gathering, and BRJC Cotillion will help your teen feel comfortable at any dining event, whether casual or formal. We highly recommend each student attend an etiquette dinner each cotillion season. Our etiquette dinners are an add-on event and will have a separate cost from our cotillion tuition. Here’s a glimpse of what your teen will master at our special guided 4-course semi-formal dinner:

• Proper Silverware Usage: Learning how to use each utensil correctly, from the soup spoon to the dessert spoon, and knowing which silverware to use for each course.
• Napkin Etiquette: The importance of using a napkin appropriately, placing it on their lap, when you need to leave the table, and at the end of the meal.
• Course Transitions: How to transition smoothly through multiple courses at a formal dinner, including when to wait to start eating, how to pace themselves, and when it’s appropriate to engage in conversation.
• Eating with Confidence: Tips for chewing with the mouth closed, holding utensil properly and cutting food easily, and handling food with ease to avoid any awkward moments during meals.
• Gracious Dining Behavior: How to express gratitude to the host, participate in conversations during dinner, and use polite manners in any dining situation.

Ballroom and Line Dance Instruction:

Social dancing is a fun and vital part of the Cotillion experience, providing your teen with the opportunity to build confidence, teamwork, and coordination while enjoying themselves on the dance floor. Here’s what they’ll learn:

• Ballroom Dance Basics: Teens will learn the fundamentals of traditional ballroom and Latin dances, including the Tango, Mambo and Samba, while also reviewing the Foxtrot, Cha Cha Cha and Rumba. These classic dances are timeless and mastering them will help them navigate formal events with ease.
• Line Dance Fun: Students will also learn the latest line dances that are perfect for any casual gathering or event. These dances ensure that everyone has fun. 
• Building Confidence through Dance: Dancing provides a chance for preteens to express themselves in a supportive, fun environment. The movements help build poise, rhythm, and coordination, preparing them for any dance floor, whether it’s at prom, a wedding, family event, or social gathering.
• Social Etiquette on the Dance Floor: In addition to dance steps, students will learn the proper etiquette when dancing with others—how to ask someone for a dance, introductions, and how to engage in polite conversation while dancing.

Why BRJC Cotillion is a Must for Your Teen:

Our comprehensive Cotillion program is not only about learning proper table manners or dance moves—it’s about giving your teen the skills they need to stand out in both social and professional settings. Whether it’s for their first job interview, a special event, or simply developing meaningful relationships with peers, the lessons from Cotillion will last a lifetime.

Ready to Take Your Teen’s Social Skills to the Next Level?

Don’t miss this opportunity to invest in your teen’s future with the tools they need to succeed.

The BRJC Fall 2027 Combined Seventh and Eighth Grades Cotillion Schedule will be posted in late winter or early spring of 2027. Dates below are from the Fall 2026 season.

The 2027 Fall Season will meet on Saturday evenings (time TBD for five or six events. Dinner dates will be added later.

Saturday Night cotillion dates are as follows for 2026:
All dates below are for 8:30pm-9:45pm at Bentonville Community Center

Seventh & Eighth Combined Grades Registration and Tuition

• Tuition: $250 per student ($260 with PayPal fees). 
• Deposit: A non-refundable deposit of $125 ($130 with PayPal fees) along with an application is due at the time of student registration. The deposit counts towards the total tuition.
• Remaining Tuition Due: The remaining tuition balance is due by August 5, 2027. The director will send a PayPal invoice in July to participants for the remaining balance due.
• Late Registrations: Registrations on August 6th or later are considered late registrations and will include a $25 late fee with application. 

Invitations will be sent via email to registered participants. As spaces are available, invitations will continue through the summer of 2027. Some groups may fill well before our first event. In the event of uneven participant ratios, a waitlist may be created. Thank you for your understanding!

Applications are first applied, first accepted, as spots remain. 

Refund Policy:

Payments are non-refundable. Please note that your student’s registration and payment are for the Fall 2027 cotillion season and are non-transferable to future events. We plan our venues, staffing, and dining well in advance, so check your calendars carefully. Thank you.

Can’t make the Fall 2027 cotillion season of events? Join our email list to be notified about our other popular etiquette events for teens, such as dining etiquette events!

Late Registrations: Registrations on August 5th or later are considered late registrations and require a $25 late fee with the application.