The BRJC Cotillion 6th Grade program is full of engaging, fun, and educational activities that ensure your child’s growth. Please note: We have two sixth grade groups, this one that meets at 5:30pm and another one that meets at 7:00pm. Please register with friends for the same group, as there won't be transferring between groups. Here's a glimpse into what they’ll learn:

Dining Etiquette:

A Fun and Interactive Way to Master Table Manners! Preteens will learn the art of proper dining etiquette in a way that excites them! They'll discover everything from how to know which silverware to use for each course to the difference between American and Continental dining styles. The best part? They'll practice their skills at a delicious, guided four-course dinner with their peers, which always is a favorite experience.

What to Expect:

• Silverware placement and handling
• Napkin etiquette
• Transitioning through courses
• How to eat confidently in any dining setting

Effective Communication Skills:

Master the Art of Connection and Confidence. Good manners require great communication skills. In this part of the program, students will learn the importance of making a great first impression, mastering proper handshakes, and reading social cues. They’ll develop the skills to engage in meaningful conversations and form lasting connections.

Topics Covered Include:

• Proper introductions and eye contact
• How to read and understand social cues
• Helpful conversation starters and keeping friendships strong

Confidence-Building Techniques and Activities:

Our comprehensive social skills lessons are designed to help teens build confidence, develop strong interpersonal skills, and understand the importance of respect and gratitude in all types of social interactions. At our events, teens will learn the importance of sending timely invitations and RSVPs, understanding various types of invitations, and the key to being respectful guests at any gathering. They’ll also discover how to make a great impression through engaging conversation, knowing the essentials of when and how to leave a party, and mastering the art of graciously thanking their hosts.

We’ll cover essential life skills such as writing elegant thank-you notes, addressing envelopes with care, and understanding the difference between formal and informal correspondence. Teens will also gain insight into how expressing gratitude can build strong relationships and leave lasting positive impressions that lead to future invitations. Additionally, our events will teach proper theater etiquette and the unspoken rules of polite behavior in public and group settings, ensuring that teens feel confident and capable in any social situation.

Skills Learned:

• Confidence-building social interactions
• Understanding the importance of a timely RSVP for parties or future work events
• Writing and sending elegant thank-you notes
• Mastering party etiquette and respectful behavior in group settings

Ballroom and Line Dance Instruction:

Social Dancing with a Modern Twist! Dance your way to better social connections! Students will learn ballroom and current line dances that blend classic moves with contemporary music. From the Foxtrot to the Cha Cha Cha to the Waltz, these dance styles foster teamwork and help students practice social skills while having fun on the dance floor with their friends.

Cotillion isn’t just about learning how to dance or eat properly—it’s about giving your preteen or teen the tools they need to navigate the world with confidence and charm. Whether it’s a formal dinner or another social event, they'll be ready to shine!

Why Should Your Preteen Attend?

Our etiquette events are designed to energize and engage preteen and teens while providing valuable opportunities for developing communication and social skills. Each session offers more than just learning dance steps—it combines etiquette training with ballroom and line dancing, helping teens build confidence, teamwork, and effective social interaction. Teens will practice key social skills through partner trading, introductions, and conversation starters, reinforcing the etiquette and communication tools they’ve learned. As they learn new steps each week, they’ll also develop grace, poise, and meaningful social connections, preparing them for both current and future social events.

Under the expert guidance of the BRJC director—a experienced dance instructor—students will gain a strong foundation in both ballroom and line dancing. These dances not only improve coordination, rhythm, and timing, but also encourage collaboration and learning how to follow cues in a social setting. Alongside dance instruction, the etiquette training helps teens build the social skills needed to navigate various events with ease and confidence. By working together, teens will boost their self-assurance, develop a sense of connection with others, and learn how to interact confidently in a wide range of social situations. Our events create a positive, supportive environment where teens can grow as individuals, preparing them for success in current and future social events throughout their lives.

The Bentonville-Rogers Junior Cotillion program empowers teens to navigate social events with ease, grace, and respect. Parents will love knowing their teens are gaining these important life skills, setting them up for success in both their personal and professional lives.

Our Fall 2026 Sixth Grade Cotillion meets for four events on Saturday evenings from 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm at the Bentonville Community Center (BCC). Attire for these events will range from semi-formal to costume/casual depending on the event theme. 

Students in this group will also attend a 4-course guided etiquette dinner for 2.5 hours on an early Sunday evening at a local restaurant in October. Attire for our dinner will be semi-formal.

Sixth Grade Event Schedule:
All dates below are for 5:30pm-6:45pm at Bentonville Community Center

Saturday night cotillion dates are as follows for 2026:
Sunday Night Etiquette Dinners will be from 4:30pm to 7:00pm on Sunday, October 4th (last names A-M) and Sunday October 11th (last names N-Z). Please plan on attending your designated night for dinner.

We are planning to hold the Holly Ball on November 7th, pending confirmation of a venue that works well for our groups. For now, please save the date, and we’ll share an update with all participants once plans are confirmed.

Sixth Grade Registration and Tuition

• Tuition: $230 per student ($240 with included PayPal fees)
• Deposit: A non-refundable deposit of $115 ($120 with PayPal fees) along with an application is due at the time of student registration. The deposit counts towards the total tuition.
• Remaining Tuition Due: The remaining tuition balance is due by August 5, 2026 for FALL 2026. The director will send a PayPal invoice in July to participants for the remaining balance due.
  
• Late Registrations: Registrations on August 5th or later are considered late registrations and require a $25 late fee with the application. All late registrations require the full tuition payment and application at that time. Those with unpaid tuition will be sent an updated invoice the day after tuition is due with updated fees added.

Invitations will be sent via email to registered participants. As spaces are available, invitations will continue until we are full. In the event of uneven participant ratios, a waitlist may be created. Thank you for your understanding!

How to Register:
Register by clicking the Register button below or email BRJCmanners@gmail.com for more information. Early registration is highly encouraged as spots fill up quickly!

Applications are first applied, first accepted, as spots remain. 

Refund Policy:

Payments are non-refundable are non-transferable to future events. We plan our venues, staffing, and dining well in advance, so check your calendars carefully. If you need exact dates, please wait to register until those are posted to register. Thank you.

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